Scott's birthday wishes: from me

 

Marci Wigington Sargent is with Scott Sargent.

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Happy birthday on 11/29 to Scott Sargent!

To my husband, my main man, my cheerleader and our team captain, my mr right, my best date ever, my fit, makes me wanna be better, my fellow dodger's fan, my forever UofU vs BYU rival, my partner in parenting, my safety patrol, my sourdough bread maker, the God believing scientist, my temple "think celestial" partner, my alarm clock and my fav to tuck me in bed, the one who builds me up and steadies me and brings out my best self, my family tree and my family history, my gift, my answer to daily prayers, the one who can give the opinion no one argues with (how does he do this?), mr helper and handyman who can install baseboards like no-one is watching, mr power moves on the dance floor, prays for me and with me, who encourages me, who loves the beach,

my family and my everything, my Scott (the hott) Sargent.

celebrating YOU in all things big and little, together.

we celebrated with our extended family all things wedding and sealing, together. (to our families: thanks for loving us!)

we get each other like when I tear up talking about marriage and my family teases me... but you just smile, together.

we talked about G&J's family here on earth and family in heaven cheering them on today, together.

we went to Denny's with Sp and I got my carmel fix while we listened to all her stories, together.

we went to Black Friday at walmart and the "new target" bc you knew I can't miss this tradition that runs deep, together.

We watched Sp&Mas have mad skills with a dog puzzle, together.

we went bowling and I did the worst and you did the best, together

we went to church with J&K and after watched them deck the halls in their home for Christmas, together.

we talked shared all that made us glad, sad, worried and kinda mad, together.

we went shopping and you got a cool shirt that you picked out by yourself (which rarely 

Marci Wigington Sargent is with Scott Sargent.

 

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Happy birthday on 11/29 to Scott Sargent!

To my husband, my main man, my cheerleader and our team captain, my mr right, my best date ever, my fit, makes me wanna be better, my fellow dodger's fan, my forever UofU vs BYU rival, my partner in parenting, my safety patrol, my sourdough bread maker, the God believing scientist, my temple "think celestial" partner, my alarm clock and my fav to tuck me in bed, the one who builds me up and steadies me and brings out my best self, my family tree and my family history, my gift, my answer to daily prayers, the one who can give the opinion no one argues with (how does he do this?), mr helper and handyman who can install baseboards like no-one is watching, mr power moves on the dance floor, prays for me and with me, who encourages me, who loves the beach,

my family and my everything, my Scott (the hott) Sargent.

celebrating YOU in all things big and little, together.

we celebrated with our extended family all things wedding and sealing, together. (to our families: thanks for loving us!)

we get each other like when I tear up talking about marriage and my family teases me... but you just smile, together.

we talked about G&J's family here on earth and family in heaven cheering them on today, together.

we went to Denny's with Sp and I got my carmel fix while we listened to all her stories, together.

we went to Black Friday at walmart and the "new target" bc you knew I can't miss this tradition that runs deep, together.

We watched Sp&Mas have mad skills with a dog puzzle, together.

we went bowling and I did the worst and you did the best, together

we went to church with J&K and after watched them deck the halls in their home for Christmas, together.

we talked shared all that made us glad, sad, worried and kinda mad, together.

we went shopping and you got a cool shirt that you picked out by yourself (which rarely happens... bc you are an engineer)

we hugged S&B crew and we rode traxx, together

we flew home on an airplane and you got seltzer water (your fav), together

we walked on the tarmac at Burbank airport and laughed at the sign for airplane pilots that reads, "fly quietly", together

we talked about each of our kids and how much we love them, together

we love them, so we called our C&E about future plans, together

we talked with my mom who still worries when we travel and can make the best Macy's Thanksgiving meal (thanks little mommy), together

we shoveled several tons of sand, together

we ate falafel and salad, together

we watched the sunset, together

we chatted about our future plans and priorities, together

we talked about trusting God and what we value, together

we talked about work and wedding stuff, together

we sat on different computers doing different things, together

and in all my tomorrow's

instead of wondering what I'll do

I want to do it all again with you, together.

~m.

ps: I love you. Thanks for being together.

Andy's life and passing away a year ago

 

Marci Wigington Sargent

 

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Sharing from my heart. My sister Dre (our Andy) passed away unexpectedly 1 year ago today. Andy loves deeply, is fiercely loyal, loves adventures, and had a fiery nature. She would tackle things without fear. She went after challenges with confidence and conquered them. I love her, but we were very different and had a strained relationship. After years of trying, the frustrations built and one day we got so mad at each other, we stopped talking with each other. At first it was a good idea, we needed to pause while we found healthier ways to relate. When I was ready to talk, she wasn't ready. I wrote a few letters asking if it was the right time, but they went unanswered. With Andy, you always knew exactly where you stood with her, because she would tell you. No answer meant: *ell no, I'm not ready! So I had to wait; my waiting took years and sadly extended to her death. But with God's plan allowing progression, I feel we can still build a relationship. When I'm thinking of someone who has died, it's because they are thinking of me. I felt it was time to start talking with her again. 4 But let patience have her perfect work

So last week I was thinking a lot about Andy, and her husband Greg (Greg passed away 2011), and their amazing kids Gabriel and Jordan. These kids: are incredibly strong, brave, kind, and sooo sweet. I just love them mucho!

I was thinking of Andy & Greg (died 2011) and their cute kids A LOT while I was putting their pictures together. I felt it was time for me to really apologize to Andy for something I said that had years ago. I whispered to my sister how sorry I was and that my words came out wrong and probably hurt her deeply. At the time, I tried to apologize, but it was not the right time. She and I had a tough relationship, she didn't want her siblings to be in her life very much. I thought of the times we tried to be closer. Sometimes it worked, but there were a lot of times it just wouldn't work out. Last week I felt she might be listening. I felt that even though she had died, she could still hear me. And you know what, I felt peace. I felt that we both needed that.

I also felt how LOVED their kids are. I mean they have a lot of family here around them, and they also have a large cheering team in heaven. There were several times this past year I felt panicked because I didn't know what to do to help. I forgot that it wasn't all up to us. Gabe and Jordan have a BIG cheering team in heaven who can help the pieces fit together. We all prayed and asked God to show us what to do when we couldn't see the way. And I wanted to thank everyone for praying for us, Gabe and Jordan. Prayer brings unity in purpose and hope. I watch how my sweet niece and nephew are within the arms of angels and I've seen miracles within this past year. I'm grateful that Christ helps us through the things we cannot see, and lights our way. A BIG thank you for all those who came, mourned with us, laughed with us, hugged us, helped us to stand. A BIG thanks to Wendy for helping me learn about Greg's family. A BIG thanks to all of Dre's friends who share love with her kids. A BIG thanks to my mom and Quinn and Sara for giving them a place to land. And a BIG thanks to Gabe and Jordan who have the best of both their parents: love & patience from their dad and courage & loyalty to family from their mom.

So today, my heart misses my sister. We are not left alone. We can feel them close. We can whisper from our hearts things we both need to hear. Talk with those you love and have lost. Heaven is filled with good listeners, miracles workers, guardian angels, and those who can help us heal. Progression of relationships can continue after we die. Even though those we love have moved across LIFE's street into heaven, we can work together on healing the hurts in our relationships. Her perspective is different now. My perspective has changed too. And love exists on both sides of life. Andy, I love you miss you and am so grateful for you in my life.

Elder Neil L. Andersen “In the crucible of earthly trials, patiently move forward, and the Savior’s healing power will bring you light, understanding, peace, and hope”.

Marci Wigington Sargent

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Sharing from my heart. My sister Dre (our Andy) passed away unexpectedly 1 year ago today. Andy loves deeply, is fiercely loyal, loves adventures, and had a fiery nature. She would tackle things without fear. She went after challenges with confidence and conquered them. I love her, but we were very different and had a strained relationship. After years of trying, the frustrations built and one day we got so mad at each other, we stopped talking with each other. At first it was a good idea, we needed to pause while we found healthier ways to relate. When I was ready to talk, she wasn't ready. I wrote a few letters asking if it was the right time, but they went unanswered. With Andy, you always knew exactly where you stood with her, because she would tell you. No answer meant: *ell no, I'm not ready! So I had to wait; my waiting took years and sadly extended to her death. But with God's plan allowing progression, I feel we can still build a relationship. When I'm thinking of someone who has died, it's because they are thinking of me. I felt it was time to start talking with her again. 4 But let patience have her perfect work

So last week I was thinking a lot about Andy, and her husband Greg (Greg passed away 2011), and their amazing kids Gabriel and Jordan. These kids: are incredibly strong, brave, kind, and sooo sweet. I just love them mucho!

I was thinking of Andy & Greg (died 2011) and their cute kids A LOT while I was putting their pictures together. I felt it was time for me to really apologize to Andy for something I said that had years ago. I whispered to my sister how sorry I was and that my words came out wrong and probably hurt her deeply. At the time, I tried to apologize, but it was not the right time. She and I had a tough relationship, she didn't want her siblings to be in her life very much. I thought of the times we tried to be closer. Sometimes it worked, but there were a lot of times it just wouldn't work out. Last week I felt she might be listening. I felt that even though she had died, she could still hear me. And you know what, I felt peace. I felt that we both needed that.

I also felt how LOVED their kids are. I mean they have a lot of family here around them, and they also have a large cheering team in heaven. There were several times this past year I felt panicked because I didn't know what to do to help. I forgot that it wasn't all up to us. Gabe and Jordan have a BIG cheering team in heaven who can help the pieces fit together. We all prayed and asked God to show us what to do when we couldn't see the way. And I wanted to thank everyone for praying for us, Gabe and Jordan. Prayer brings unity in purpose and hope. I watch how my sweet niece and nephew are within the arms of angels and I've seen miracles within this past year. I'm grateful that Christ helps us through the things we cannot see, and lights our way. A BIG thank you for all those who came, mourned with us, laughed with us, hugged us, helped us to stand. A BIG thanks to Wendy for helping me learn about Greg's family. A BIG thanks to all of Dre's friends who share love with her kids. A BIG thanks to my mom and Quinn and Sara for giving them a place to land. And a BIG thanks to Gabe and Jordan who have the best of both their parents: love & patience from their dad and courage & loyalty to family from their mom.

So today, my heart misses my sister. We are not left alone. We can feel them close. We can whisper from our hearts things we both need to hear. Talk with those you love and have lost. Heaven is filled with good listeners, miracles workers, guardian angels, and those who can help us heal. Progression of relationships can continue after we die. Even though those we love have moved across LIFE's street into heaven, we can work together on healing the hurts in our relationships. Her perspective is different now. My perspective has changed too. And love exists on both sides of life. Andy, I love you miss you and am so grateful for you in my life.

Elder Neil L. Andersen “In the crucible of earthly trials, patiently move forward, and the Savior’s healing power will bring you light, understanding, peace, and hope”.